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A Shot in the Arm: Resolving to Succeed

A Shot in the Arm: Resolving to Succeed

It’s another new year and, as all the gyms are running ads about getting in shape and new year’s resolutions, I thought I’d offer some thoughts on why most resolutions fail and how to stick with them (if that’ your thing). Personally, I don’t think January is the best time to be making crazy weight-loss...
A Shot in the Arm: Time to Turkey Dump

A Shot in the Arm: Time to Turkey Dump

This weekend I travelled home for the first time since school started in September.  I was really excited to see my friends from high school and especially my boyfriend.  But when I hung out with these people, I found it really difficult to connect with them.  It was like we weren’t on the same page...
PP Votes: Cait Goes Liberal

PP Votes: Cait Goes Liberal

With the Ontario election just days away, I would like to offer a few reasons why I think the Ontario Liberal Party is the best of our governing options.  As a preceding caveat, I would like to explain that I am not a political analyst.  I am a 20-something woman, university educated and city-dwelling.   My...
A Shot in the Arm: Tips for Residomestic Bliss

A Shot in the Arm: Tips for Residomestic Bliss

So it’s September again, and the reason I know this is because the other week I was harassed on the corner of College and Yonge by a bunch painted-faced hooligans shouting “Shine-a-rama,! Shine-Shine-a-rama!” and begging for my spare change.  In recent years this phenomenon has been kind of depressing for me, since, only a little...
A Shot in the Arm: There is Such a Thing as “Too Nice”

A Shot in the Arm: There is Such a Thing as “Too Nice”

Question: I was recently reviewed at work and was told that I am too nice.  How do I strike a balance between being more aggressive and yet staying true to myself? ~ Amanda Answer: This is a question that many people are faced with in their work-lives.  I think women often find this a particularly...
A Shot in the Arm: Is It Ever Really “No Strings Attached”?

A Shot in the Arm: Is It Ever Really “No Strings Attached”?

There’s been a good deal of discussion lately about “friends with benefits”: can it be done? Are the participants in denial about their relationship? Or are they just commitment-phobic sluts? And yes, boys can be sluts as well as girls. There have even been two feature films on the subject released in the past 8...
A Shot in the Arm: How to Choose a Roommate

A Shot in the Arm: How to Choose a Roommate

Recently, over coffee with a friend, I found myself in a discussion about what makes a good roommate and how to select the best option when you have a list of potentials staring you in the face. They all appear eager to move into your space and share in the singular experience that is living...